5 Ways to Fix Your Digital Handshake
- 24 Jul 2025
- 4 min read

Last week, a prospective client told me: "I checked your LinkedIn, website AND Instagram before reaching out."
"Digital background check" happens more often than we realise.
Your personal brand is your digital handshake - and in a world where first impressions happen online, that initial connection either opens doors or closes them before you've even said hello.
Most professionals are walking around with a broken digital handshake and don't even know it.
Why Your Digital Handshake Matters More Than Ever
Before reaching out, people now:
- Google your name and scan the first page of results
- Check your LinkedIn profile for credibility signals
- Browse your social media for personality and values alignment
- Visit your website to understand your expertise
- Look for reviews, testimonials, or case studies
This entire process happens in under 5 minutes - and it determines whether they see you as someone worth connecting with.
You never know about the opportunities you're losing.
2 Components of a Strong Digital Handshake
1. Alignment Across Platforms
The problem: When potential partners check multiple platforms, they often see confusion instead of consistency.
What misalignment looks like:
- LinkedIn says "Marketing Consultant," Instagram bio says "Life Coach"
- Professional headshot on LinkedIn, party photos on other platforms
- Serious, corporate tone on website, casual slang on social media
Quick fixes:
- Use the same professional photo across platforms
- Align your bio descriptions and expertise claims
- Maintain consistent tone and personality
The 30-Second Value Proposition Test
Can someone understand what makes you uniquely valuable in 30 seconds?
Common mistakes:
- Too vague: "I help businesses grow"
- Too complex: "I provide synergistic solutions for holistic business optimization"
- Too broad: "Marketing, sales, strategy, and leadership expert"
Formula that works: "I help [specific audience] [achieve specific result] through [unique method/approach]"
Example transformation:
- Before: "Marketing consultant helping businesses"
- After: "I help SaaS founders turn website traffic into paying customers through conversion-focused content strategies"
2. Content That Demonstrates, Don't Declares
Instead of saying you're an expert, share insights that prove it.
What "declaring" looks like:
- "I'm a productivity expert"
- "Award-winning strategist"
- "Thought leader in digital marketing"
What "demonstrating" looks like:
- Sharing a specific framework you developed
- Breaking down a client case study (with permission)
- Explaining your process for solving common problems
- Providing actionable insights from your experience
Your digital handshake is working 24/7, even when you're not. Make sure it's opening the right doors.
The goal is authentic representation of your expertise and personality in a way that attracts the right opportunities and relationships.
Building personal brands that matter,
Lisa ✨